For couples who have built a good life…
When did you last actually enjoy it?
Private, bespoke relationship retreats in Bali — for couples who have everything, and want to protect what actually matters.
This might be exactly what you need — even if you don't quite have the words for it yet.
You're not in crisis. You haven't given up. But somewhere between the work trips, the kids, the dinners that end in silence, and the holidays that felt more like logistics than love — something has quietly shifted.
You still choose each other. You just haven't felt truly chosen in a while.
Recognition list:
You’re doing well in life... but your relationship has quietly moved down the list.
You still care deeply about each other…But something feels less alive than it used to.
The same conversations repeat... Or the important ones aren’t happening at all.
You’re not in crisis.... But you know this matters too much to leave to chance.
*Most of the couples we work with don't need to be fixed. They need permission to pause — and a safe, private space to find each other again.
What this actually is
A private, guided, playful experience for the two of you.No group sharing.
No awkward exercises.
No pressure to perform or “open up”.Just the right environment, the right conversations, and thoughtful guidance — at your pace.
It's more than just conversations
A private, guided, playful experience for the two of you.No group sharing.
No awkward exercises.
No pressure to perform or “open up”.Just the right environment, the right conversations, and thoughtful guidance — at your pace.
shared experiences
lightness
new environments
moments of play
and seeing each other differently again
This is structured, but it’s also enjoyable.
You’ll think, reflect, laugh, explore — and actually have a good time together.
Your time in Bali
Every experience is private and tailored, but typically unfolds over 2–4 days.We create a space where you can:
Step out of your usual routine and roles
Have the conversations that normally get rushed, avoided, or derailed
Understand each other more clearly — without blame or defensiveness
Share new experiences that bring back ease, curiosity, and connection
Alongside guided sessions, your time may include:
Beautiful, nature-based settings
Thoughtfully designed shared activities
Time to relax, enjoy, and just be together
Moments that feel more like a date than a discussion
It’s intentional — but it never feels heavy.
What couples leave with
A clearer understanding of each other (without tension)
Practical ways to navigate recurring conflict
Conversations they’ve been putting off — finally done well
A renewed sense of closeness, ease, and attraction
The feeling of being on the same team again
Not a dramatic breakthrough.
A shift that actually lasts when you go home.
What couples say
“ We really appreciated the private nature of the experience: everything felt safe and just between us as a couple. Jit’s warmth made us feel very welcome, and the different activities he introduced, with various guest contributors, were both original and surprising.Through these experiences, we were able to meet each other again in new ways, whether in a creative space or in a more introspective one. It was truly enriching for our relationship, and we’re thankful for the opportunity.”
About Us
Solas:Solas was created to give couples a place to pause, reflect, and reconnect — without pressure, performance, or pretense.Curated by Jitesh Patel, a certified Gottman Leader and longtime partner himself, our retreats and sessions are grounded in research-backed practices, especially The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. These principles offer clear, practical ways to strengthen connection, build trust, and navigate the everyday challenges of partnership.But we don’t stop at relationship tools. The learning is complemented by holistic and playful experiences — moments shared in nature, creativity, and movement — designed to bring joy, ease, and a deeper sense of togetherness.
PT LEJIT CONNECTIONS BALI
PT LEJIT CONNECTIONS BALI
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
A private six-week course for couplesThis six-week, one-to-one course is for couples who want to understand how they relate — how they connect, disagree, repair, and find their way back to each other — with more ease and awareness.Grounded in the Gottman Institute’s decades of relationship research, the course offers a calm, structured space to slow things down and look at what’s really happening between you. Not to fix each other, but to understand yourselves — together.We meet weekly, privately, with time between sessions to practise, notice patterns in real life, and return with what’s true.
WHO IS THIS FOR
This course is for couples who:
Care about their relationship and want to invest in it intentionally
Feel generally “okay” but sense there’s more depth, ease, or understanding available
Are navigating recurring tensions, miscommunication, or emotional distance
Want structure and guidance without entering long-term therapy
Value privacy, discretion, and thoughtful facilitation
You don’t need to be in crisis. You just need to be willing to show up honestly.
Why Do This Work
Most couples don’t struggle because they don’t love each other.
They struggle because they don’t understand what’s happening beneath the surface.This course helps you:
● Recognise the patterns you fall into — especially under stress
● Understand how past experiences shape present reactions
● Learn how to argue without damaging trust
● Repair more quickly after disconnection
● Stay emotionally connected even when life feels busy or heavyIt’s about building a relationship that can hold real life — not one that avoids it.
What You’ll Gain
By the end of six weeks, couples often describe:✚ Clearer, calmer conversations — even around difficult topics
✚ Less reactivity and more understanding during conflict
✚ Greater emotional closeness and appreciation
✚ Practical tools they can return to long after the course ends
✚ A shared language for navigating challenges togetherThe impact isn’t dramatic or performative — it’s felt quietly, day to day, in how you speak, listen, and reconnect.
What's Included
✔ Six private 90-minute sessions (online or in person)
A guided journey through the Gottman Institute’s 7 Principles
✔ Tailored conversations and exercises — adapted to your relationship
✔ Practical tools for communication, conflict, repair, and connection
✔ Light reflection or practice between sessions
✔ Optional pre-work and a closing integration session
✔ Ongoing support between sessions, if neededEverything is paced to suit you — no rushing, no performing, no group setting.
Price per couple:
IDR 22.500.000/ USD $1,500.00
Private Couples Retreat
Our private retreats are the heart of Solas:Solas — a fully bespoke experience for one couple at a time, hosted in Bali. Think of it as stepping out of the everyday and into a space designed entirely for the two of you.
WHAT WE DOOur private retreats are the heart of Solas:Solas — a fully bespoke experience for one couple at a time, hosted in Bali. Think of it as stepping out of the everyday and into a space designed entirely for the two of you.We curate every detail of your time with us so you can simply arrive and focus on each other.Your retreat can include:
Guided sessions using Gottman-backed tools to strengthen connection
Curated experiences such as art therapy, cacao ceremonies, breath and bodywork or guided visioning,
Playful moments through dance, games and discovery
Physical activities such as waterfall hikes
Luxury hospitality – beautiful settings, private dining, spa treatments, and unstructured time to rest
WHAT WE DOShort, focused experiences designed to fit into busy lives. Think of them as a reset button: playful, practical, and easy to say yes to.
Mornings start slowly, with nothing expected but presence
Mid-morning sessions offer guided conversation and reflection
Afternoons are for play: a shared adventure, creative experience, or time by the pool
Evenings invite connection – private dinners, sunset rituals, and space to talk or simply enjoy the quiet
WHAT YOU GAINCouples leave our retreats feeling:
Seen and heard in ways that are rare at home
Closer and more playful, with renewed energy for each other
Clear on what matters, with shared intentions for the months ahead
Grounded and refreshed, ready to carry that connection back into daily life
This isn’t just a getaway. It’s a reset for your relationship — one that lingers long after you’ve returned home.
PT LEJIT CONNECTIONS BALI
Leadership Retreat
Clarity.
Direction.
Realignment.
NEXT RETREAT: SEPTEMBER 2026
UBUD, BALIClarity doesn’t come from pushing harder — it comes from space, honesty, and the courage to listen to what’s shifting inside you.This retreat is designed for people who feel a change coming but can’t yet name it. Leaders who sense they’re entering a new chapter, but need room to understand what they want, why it matters, and how to move toward it with confidence.Across four days, you'll:
make sense of the inner signals you’ve been ignoring
reconnect with your intuition and decision-making clarity
learn how to steady your system so choices feel grounded, not reactive
explore what the next phase of life and leadership could look like
You’ll leave with direction that feels true, and the first steps to begin.This isn’t motivation.
This isn’t training.
This is clarity — for leaders ready to understand what’s changing and why.
A Taste of Clarity
This is a small, considered session for people who feel something changing — in their work, their life, or the way they lead — but haven’t yet had the space to think it through properly.
It’s a chance to slow down for a few hours and notice what’s already there.
This workshop offers a glimpse into the work behind our [Leadership Retreat] (#leadership)
Who It's for?
This session is for people who
feel a change coming but can’t yet define it
are busy, capable, and carrying a lot
want space to think without being pushed or analysed
prefer thoughtful conversation over motivation or advice
You don’t need to prepare anything.
You don’t need to share more than you want to.
What Will HappenOver 2.5 hours, we’ll create a calm, structured space to:
➔ pause and settle
➔ reflect quietly on what feels different right now
➔ explore how decisions are really being made
➔ listen — to yourself and to others — without fixing or problem-solvingThe tone is steady and practical.
Nothing is forced. Nothing is performative.
Why This Session Exists
This workshop is not an introduction to a programme.
It’s a way to see if this kind of work is useful for you — and whether the retreat feels like the right next step.
It also helps us shape the retreat group carefully.
The Details
Length: 2.5 hours
Group size: Small
Location: [Insert]
Date / Time: Fri 13 Feb / 0900
Cost IDR: 250K for light refreshments
Breathe in Bhutan
HIGHLIGHTSA cultural, yoga and nature-rich journey through the The Land of the Thunder Dragon.Bhutan isn’t a place you simply visit — it’s a place you feel. The air is crisp, the pace is unhurried, and life is measured in something more meaningful than time.
This 8-night escape is about stepping out of the noise and letting Bhutan work on you in its own way. You’ll walk through forests where prayer flags catch the wind, sit quietly in monasteries with chanting monks, and hike trails that end in views that silence a crowd.It’s not a checklist. It’s a rhythm — mornings that begin with yoga or meditation, afternoons filled with culture and stories, evenings of rest in boutique lodges tucked into valleys
Dates: 7 – 15 May 2026
Duration: 8 nights
Single Room : USD $4,300.00 per person
Double Room (shared): USD $7,800 ($3900.00 per person)
Being Us
WHY IT MATTERSEven the strongest relationships need space — to breathe, to listen, to laugh again.Over time, couples change and grow, but rarely pause to understand what’s shifted or what needs to be rekindled.The Being Us Retreat creates that pause. It’s a chance to explore how you love, how you communicate, and how to bring curiosity and play back into your partnership.
Dates: 8 – 11 Dec 2025
Duration: 3 nights
Location: Ubud, Bali
Price : USD $1,999 per couple
1. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
A six-week, one-to-one course for couples who want a stronger, more resilient relationship — not by changing who they are, but by understanding how they relate.Using the Gottman Institute’s research-backed 7 Principles, we work privately and at your pace, either in person in Bali or online, to make sense of the patterns that shape your day-to-day connection.This is not therapy or counselling. It’s structured, practical relationship work — grounded in decades of research and designed to support real conversations, not diagnoses.Through guided conversation, reflection, and simple tools, you’ll learn how to communicate more clearly, navigate tension without damage, and find your way back to each other more easily when life gets busy or hard.Thoughtful, considered work that supports trust, closeness, and a steadier sense of “us” — in everyday moments, not just the good ones.
2. Private Retreats
Our signature experience: a fully personalised retreat in Bali, designed for one couple at a time.Your retreat can be as restorative or as playful as you wish — blending quiet moments with guided sessions and curated adventures.Every detail is chosen with care:
Luxurious hospitality with private dining, spa treatments, and time to just be
Tailored sessions using Gottman-backed tools to strengthen connection
Curated experiences like art therapy, breath work, cacao ceremonies, waterfall walks or guided visioning
Whether it’s a honeymoon, anniversary, or simply the right moment to pause, this is your space to reflect, realign, and enjoy each other again.
Perfect for honeymoons, anniversaries, or simply because it’s time.
3. Group Experiences
Join a small group of like-minded people (or bring your own friends) for an experience in Bali or abroad.
A mix of guided workshops, shared adventures, and time to relax together.Ideal for reconnecting, learning, and building community.Next event -
1. Leadership Retreat - designed for people who feel a change coming but can’t yet name it. Bali
2. Breathe in Bhutan - a yoga, cultural and nature based experience